Too much stress
She came to Singapore listening to my words. It was difficult for her to get Indian visa since India embassy sealed "VAF" Visa applied for on her passport. That means one person applied for visa but not granted. My marriage plan is postponed again. That made me to tell her to go back to Singapore where she was working. And Singapore allows foreigners marriage if all documents are valid. Before she was traveling to Singapore it was confirmed that she is a widow and has three kids. It was painful to know that news after 4 years of contact with her. She never told me about it. Here I'm not able to settle in the new rented house. Things are getting complicated. She is continuing waning that since she came to Singapore she lost some job opportunities... whatever life is stressful.