Walk ahead!

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Prasad's marriage is fixed. Now in the five member team of Alpha i am the only one left out as unmarried. Subair and Gafoor sir is much ahead, they are having kids. They all followed the conventional way of marriage, arranged by the family and from the same caste with all traditional blends.

One of my friend was mentioning about 480 grams of Gold he got from the girl's family. I will choose the word dowry for that. Still its prevailing here. But if the system is there or not in India all the family send their daughter with all golden ornaments! Even if we are telling them we don't want any penny, the bride will come covered with gold!

I don't like to see the mummified body! Many families are falling down in the financial troubles after marriage of a girl. Among Muslim many boys start their career or business after getting the dowry! People spend Lakhs taking loans and credit.

I chosen my own way. I was searching for a lady who was divorced or widow as my life partner. And I am against the dowry system. May be because I am social worker I am doing like this. Muthaji was also faught agaist dowry system. But now where I am and where my friends! For making me strong to hold my worthy priciples even my lover is not with me! Feeling loneliness. But i will hold the values and i will go ahead.

The peculiar bachelors' family is one the issue I am having. Except one sister other are sinking or just hanging! If I am holding them I also will sink because they are not ready to come out. They just want to stay like that. And Dappu after Gulf she started using the words 'sinner' and 'unworthy'. I have to make them feel great about theirselves. Then I can walk ahead. Till then I have to be with all.

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